ok. this will only hurt a little:
practice tact (ex: brutal honesty doesn't have to be SO brutal)
produce more books
more scheduled writing time
less internet surfing - ok - less blog reading (that one hurt)
less myspace surfing... seriously.
less livejournal surfing...no, seriously.
ignore the haters. don't give them a leg to stand on, dammit!
be less sensitive
bear no crosses
hold no grudges
don't re-read ugly emails
don't get mad - get a lawyer
dont act in haste
save money. no pity shoe shopping ANYMORE!
decorate the house - find my feng shui
meditate more regurarly
write more letters - it's a lost art, i swear.
vacation more - weekend getaways included
walk in heels again. red ones. ha!
tell amari the truth
kiss her more than twice a day
have more dates...with him
find a house
get a dog -- a staffie, a pit or a bulldog
find happiness daily
don't act in haste - no really. stop that shyt!
fix my frown -- even when i really wanna frown
less judgement. more observation (smile christa)
dance again, without wincing
fall in love with myself again
let him love me completely